"HELPING HANDS"

THIS BLOG WILL HELP YOU TO STAY MOTIVATED IN ALL THE PHASES OF LIFE.LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WORRY AND CRY,SO WHY NOT TO LIVE AND ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF IT..

YES!BEFORE I MADE THIS BLOG I WAS THE KIND OF PERSON WHO ALWAYS FELT LOW ON SMALL SMALL THINGS.PEOPLE USUALLY ASK ME HOW THIS DRASTIC CHANGE TOOK PLACE?THE MAJOR REASON IS I FOLLOWED "ART OF LIVING".ONE MUST JOIN IT TO KNOW THE REAL MEANING OF LIFE.SRI SRI RAVISHANKAR HAVE BEAUTIFULLY ORGANISED PROGRAMS FOR DEALING POSITIVELY AND SKILLFULLY WITH THE PROBLEMS OF LIFE.

HAVE YOU GIVEN YOUR MOOD REMOTE CONTROL TO OTHERS?

WHY TO SPOIL YOUR MOOD BECAUSE OF OTHERS PEOPLE GOSSIP ITS THEIR WORK

THEN WHY TO GET AFFECTED INSTEAD THINK THAT AAPKO APKE BAARE MAI KUCH 

NAYA JAANE KO MILA EXCEPT AND LET IT GO.

SO,PEOPLE CAN'T AFFECT YOUR MOOD IF YOU DON'T GIVE YOUR MOOD CONTROL TO THEM:)  

PEOPLE ALWAYS COMPLAIN "WHY ME?" WHY IS IT ALWAYS ME WITH WHOM SUCH BAD THINGS HAPPEN (EVEN I AM 1 OF THEM) BUT WHEN I REALIZED CRIBBING AND CRYING IS JUST WASTING TIME INSTEAD YOU HAVE TO FACE IT NOW OR LATER SO WHY NOT NOW?"TRY ME" IS THE ONLY THING THAT KEEPS ME GOING IN SUCH SITUATIONS AND HELPS ME TO STAY POSITIVE AND HAPPY AT THE SAME TIME.YES.I AM STRONGER THAN THE PROBLEM,I CAN FACE IT!!!

WHEN SITUATIONS ARE BEYOND YOUR CONTROL LEAVE IT UPON TIME,IT WILL AUTOMATICALLY ADJUST YOU TO ACCEPT THE CHANGE.TIME TAKES TIME.WHEN YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE GIVE IT TO TIME IT WILL HEAL YOUR PROBLEM AND YOU WILL SURELY FIND THE BEST SOLUTION.ANGER TO THE SITUATION MAY LEAD YOU TO THE WRONG DECISIONS SO HAVE PATIENCE AND KEEP CALM;)

DREAMS!!WHAT ARE THEY?MOST OFTEN,PEOPLE SEE DREAMS AND GIVE UP  WHEN THEY FACE FAILURE BUT FAILURE DOESN'T MEAN YOU WILL NOT GET NEXT OPPORTUNITY IT MEANS FACING NEXT ATTEMPT IN LEARNING.WHEN YOU FEEL YOU HAVE NO TALENT OR YOU ARE JACK OF ALL AND MASTER OF NONE DON'T STOP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING BECAUSE WHEN TALENT DOESN'T WORK,HARD-WORK DOES!!HAVE FAITH AND NEVER LET YOUR DREAMS BE JUST DREAMS MAKE IT REAL.FOLLOW YOUR HEART:)

WHAT BREAKS YOUR HEART?SOMEONE'S WORDS?BEHAVIOUR?DUDE WAKE UP AND SEE THE TRUTH OF LIFE WHAT ARE YOU HANGING ON TO?ACCEPTING THIS WILL BE MORE EASY WHEN YOU KNOW THAT YOUR OWN BODY IS GOING TO LEAVE YOU ONE DAY,IF YOU WANT TO MOVE YOUR HAND YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO,IF YOU WANT TO SPEAK SOMETHING YOUR TONGUE WILL NOT LET YOU,WHEN OUR OWN BODY IS NOT GOING TO LISTEN WHAT YOU SAY THEN THE PERSON WHO BROKE YOUR HEART WHY WILL?ACCEPT THE TRUTH.YES!IT'S GENUINE TO BE EMOTIONAL BUT THERE SHOULD NOT BE ANY EMOTIONAL DRAMA.ACCEPTANCE MAY TAKE TIME BUT ATLAST THE PERSON WHO BROKE YOUR HEART DOESN'T CARE THEN WHY SHOULD YOU MAN?THE BEST REACTION TO THIS SITUATION WILL BE SHOWING THAT PERSON THAT YOU CAN BE MORE HAPPY IN HIS/HER ABSENCE THOUGH JUST TO PRETEND BUT TRY IT.IT REALLY DOES WORKS!! 

OVERTHINKING HAS BECOME THE MOST COMMON PROBLEM IN ALL AGE GROUPS.BUT THE QUESTION IS HOW TO GET RID OF IT?THOUGHTS ARE BEYOND OUR CONTROL HOW TO STOP THEM? I BELIEVE DON'T STOP YOUR THOUGHTS WHATEVER THOUGHT COME TO YOUR MIND JUST LET IT BE.GO TO THE MIRROR GIVE A BIG SMILE AND WONDER "WOW!! MY MIND IS SO SHARP IT THINKS SO MUCH JUST IN A SECOND"OVERTHINKING IS THERE BECAUSE NEGATIVITY IS THERE,THE BEST WAY IGNORE YOUR THOUGHTS WHEN THEY COME BY DISTRACTING YOURSELF IN SOME WORK WHICH YOU LOVE TO DO.THOUGH YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE DOING IT RIGHT NOW DO IT!IF THAT ALSO DOESN'T WORK GO IN A ROOM LOCK YOURSELF AND TALK TO YOURSELF,"WHAT'S THE PROBLEM DUDE"ASK YOURSELF THEN JUST CLOSE YOUR EYES SIT STRAIGHT AND LET THE EMOTION FLOW WHATEVER YOU FEEL LIKE CRYING OR LAUGHING LOUDLY JUST DO IT.I ASSURE YOU THIS THINGS WILL REALLY MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER:)   

DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF?IF YES,THEN YOU ARE THE MOST CONFIDENT PERSON NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INFERIOR WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT.BUT IF NOT THEN WHY?DO YOU WANT OTHERS TO LOVE YOU?BUT TELL ME 1 THING HOW CAN YOU EXPECT OTHERS TO LOVE YOU IF YOU ONLY DON'T LOVE YOURSELF?ACCEPT YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE!NO MATTER YOU ARE THIN,BONY,SKINNY,FAT BLA BLA...TRUST ME THIS SHIT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU ACCEPT YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE.NO ONE WILL DARE TO IRRITATE OR JUDGE YOU IF YOU ARE CONFIDENT THE WAY YOU DRESS THE WAY YOU BEHAVE.BE YOURSELF!!  

"HURT ME MORE,AND I WILL SMILE DOUBLE" IS THE ULTIMATE RID TO IGNORE THE ANGER,SADNESS WHEN YOU ARE HURTED BY THOSE TO WHOM YOU WERE CLOSE THE MOST!!YOUR SMILE WILL SHOW THEM YOU ARE STRONG ENOUGH TO FIGHT ALONE AND NO ONE CAN FADE YOUR SMILE IN ANY SITUATION.MORE THEY WILL,MORE THE SMILE SHOULD BE WIDER:}KEEP SMILING ANYBODY CAN MAKE YOU CRY MAKE YOU UPSET EASILY,IT IS YOU WHO HAVE TO DECIDE WHETHER TO WORK ACCORDING TO THEM OR TO SMILE AND FACE IT.

                                

                     

                                       

SELF RESPECT IS NOT AN ATTITUDE OR EGO INSTEAD IT REFLECTS YOUR WORTH.THE WORTH YOU GIVE TO YOURSELF WILL SHOW HOW CONFIDENT YOU ARE.IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF YOU WILL BE RESPECTED BY OTHERS TOO,YOU DON'T NEED TO DEMAND RESPECT THEN.IF YOU DON'T RESPECT YOURSELF.IF YOU ARE ALWAYS DEPENDENT ON OTHERS YOU SERIOUSLY NEED TO CHANGE BECAUSE HAVING SELF RESPECT GIVES YOU SPACE TO LIVE CONFIDENTLY AND INDEPENDENTLY."LIVE WITH SELF RESPECT" 

A PERSON WHEN STARTS THINKING EMOTIONALLY RATHER THAN BEING PRACTICAL USUALLY FACE PROBLEMS.THINKING EMOTIONALLY MAKES A PERSON WEAK IN TAKING DECISIONS AND ALSO HE/SHE IS NOT ABLE TO ACCEPT THE SITUATION AS IT IS.WHEN IT'S ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP IT'S GENUINE TO THINK EMOTIONALLY BUT AT THE SAME TIME U HAVE TO THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES THAT MAY TAKE PLACE IN FUTURE RELATING TO UR PRESENT DECISION.WHEN IT'S ABOUT UR CAREER WITHOUT ANY DOUBT U HAVE TO BE PRACTICAL.U HAVE TO LESSEN OR CONTROL UR EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS THEN WHETHER ITS ABOUT UR PARENTS OR THE PERSON U LOVE.BEING EMOTIONAL WILL MAKE YOU MORE EMOTIONAL AND WILL DELAY IN TAKING DECISIONS AND AT LAST REGRETS.YOU WANT TO COUNT MONEY OR PEOPLE IN UR LIFE? GOOD LUCK!!